Monday, May 4, 2020

Am I Beautiful?

How many of us feel beautiful? Do we feel comfortable in our own skin? Do we like ourselves the way we actually are? Do we love our messy hair, skinny body, our chubby cheeks, our dark complexion or do we just start questioning the real us by looking at others? 

Every child before going to school is comfortable about themselves. They do not feel like comparing themselves with any other person but, as soon as their schooling starts they start feeling inferior. Why is it? What might be the reason? The thing is the cute friend in his/her class gets more attention from the teacher. The teacher gives more priority to a child because according to the teacher he/ she is more cute. Seeing this the child starts to think that he/she is not attractive. This is the first step to inferiority complex.

After that, the class gets divided in friend circles. Mostly the one who is given more attention and care by the teacher has higher level of confidence which attracts other fellow students towards them. Everyone in the class wants to be their friend which generates superiority complex in them. They start to feel that they are superior than every other children in the classroom. Now, they start becoming selective about their friends and only prefer those in their group who according to them are pretty. The ones included are "lucky" and the ones left out are considered "ugly".

The "lucky" ones always try to harass the "ugly" ones which ultimately destroys their self confidence. This process continues and when they reach 'teenage', even worse happens. There is a trend everywhere in the class about crush and couples. Everyone has crush over the "lucky" ones but "ugly" ones are again left out. This makes the "ugly" ones question their worth and think 'Am I beautiful?' In this way, their self confidence gets crushed since an early age which makes them spend their whole life in self doubt.


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