Feelings are the major source of destruction. What you feel will definitely affect your work. Good feelings always give good output whereas, bad feelings results to negativity.
I often keep troubling my mind these days thinking -do we really have control over our feelings? Or do we just let our feelings flow with the flow of time? But it is true that most of us don't have control over our feelings and just feel and think what others want us to do.
Unlike others , I too have the same problem. I feel for small things. Whenever I get compared with others or someone does negative comment on my way of handling things, I take things more deeply and seriously. I wonder if this is my weakness or strength but this thing has made me too much introvert.
With flow of every second, I fill my mind with unnecessary things. I am too much frustrated and can't find a way to let it out. I am silent most of the time hiding my feelings in the deep ocean of my heart. But I still try hard to smile and enjoy my life because life is beautiful.
Good feelings may not always give good outputs, and bad feelings may sometimes lead to progress. Nevertheless, being an introvert is not a bad thing: it just makes you who you are in terms of personality. Regarding the issue of having control over one's feelings, you may want to explore the explanations offered by neuroscience and evolutionary psychology. This could be a good starting point: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/your-neurochemical-self/201107/nature-gave-us-four-kinds-happiness
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